Even if the sex you’re having is already pretty good, everyone wants to have better sex. Sure, some may look to porn for tips to have great sex but as many women will tell you porn may be a great way to find out what men secretly like in bed, but for women, not so much.We want some atmosphere, seduction and a soundtrack that doesn’t sound like it was banged out on your 1996 Casio keyboard. Plus, porn tends to be an issue that causes relationship problems. Sure there’s a lot of really hot sex on tv but I prefer my sex on the big screen. We’ve shown you some of the hottest movie sex scenes, but now, let me present the movies that aren’t only hot to watch, they may actually teach you a thing or two.
Cruel Intentions
This late 90s flick has everything you want in a film about super-rich kids wreaking sexual havoc on each other: hot bodies, fast cars and Joshua Jackson. Plus Sarah Michelle Gellar and Reese Witherspoon in schoolgirl outfits isn’t so bad either
Sex Tip From This Film: Anticipation is the best form of foreplay, so don’t forget to tease your partner for a while before getting to the big finish.
The Dreamers
A racy film by Italian auteur Bernardo Bertalucci about a bizarre love triangle, this film was banned in a few countries because of its racy sex scenes. Regardless, it’s a beautiful film that captures what it’s like to discover sex, and explore your sexuality. Also: the attractive stars of the film make the process pretty HOT!
Sex Tip From This Film: There’s always something new to learn about sex. Don’t be afraid of trying new things with a partner, it can be scary, but mind-opening as well. It’s not easy trying to re-capture the kind of sexual awe you had when you first had sex, but it’s worth a shot!
A History of Violence
Don’t let the name fool you, while the film may be about dreamy Viggo Mortensen’s violent past, his relationship with wife Maria Bello is anything but. What’s great about this films is that it doesn’t shy away from grown-up sex. In the film Bello and Mortensen have kids, they’re regular folks, but there sex life isn’t all missionary-style boredom, it’s hot! Plus Bello dresses up for her hubbie and it is amazing.
Sex Tip From This Film: Long-term relationship sex doesn’t need to be boring, switch things up with a little role play and some hot sex in unconventional places (there is a stair scene that’s really, really HOT)
Desperado
This film about some seriously sexy vigilantes, stars Antonia Banderas and Salma Hayek in some of their earliest roles. Two of the hottest Latin stars in their physical prime getting down and dirty? OH yes!
Sex Tip From This Film: Don’t neglect to add a little atmosphere to your sex sessions. Set the scene to amp up the passion!
The Secretary
Forget 50 Shades of Grey, this film is what really brought BDSM into mainstream culture.
Sex Tip From This Film: Even if you like your sex on the vanilla side, don’t be afraid to explore a little bit of kink, what you find may surprise you.
Tell us all about your favorite sex scenes in film in the comments!
